Boyfriend appears reluctant to be “rough” with me personally? View

Boyfriend appears reluctant to be “rough” with me personally? View I go down on my boyfriend of 2 years frequently and revel in it simply just as much as he does. Often within the heat for the minute we’ll ask him to seize my locks and then he’ll take action for my benefit. We have a tendency to direct the other person while having sex. Nevertheless, whenever we ask him to spank me personally, or place his fingers around my throat etc he will be rough in different ways *explicit lol* but will not do as I request.